for timeless love

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"Time and love are the two most precious commodities we have. When you invest time in your relationship, you create a love that stands the test of time."

– Lea E. Haber, Ph.D(c)

At the heart of my coaching philosophy is the belief that enduring, passionate relationships are built by intentionally making time for one another. As a relationship coach and licensed therapist with degrees from NYU and Columbia, I specialize in premarital coaching and beyond that helps couples establish (and re-establish) a foundation of emotional intimacy, communication, and connection.

My proactive, science-informed approach, influenced by the Gottman method, CBT, MI, and play-based techniques, focuses on preventing issues before they arise in a fun, productive, warm, yet solutions-oriented environment. This way, you can build a resilient, joyful relationship that lasts.

Join me in creating a future filled with romance, connection, and lasting partnership. Together, we can inspire the love stories of tomorrow, fostering relationships that stand the test of time. Invest in your love story today, and let’s make time for timeless love.

Create Time…

The “One”

Perfect for couples or individuals needing one session to address immediate concerns or fine-tune their romantic relationship dynamics or direction. Includes one 40-minute virtual meeting.

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“4” Love Package

Ideal for couples or individuals seeking consistent support and guidance over a month to foster positive changes and growth. Each meeting is 40 minutes virtually. Includes package of 4 meetings.

(typically 1 month)

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Foundations of Marriage: Premarital Package

Tailored for premarital couples preparing for marriage, this package helps you build a solid foundation of emotional intimacy, communication, and connection. We cover topics from boundaries, to family, to social life exceptions, intimate life exceptions, finance exceptions, and beyond. It ensures you're well-prepared for a committed future together.

Traditionally, premarital counseling has been predominantly available within religious institutions, which may not suit everyone's needs or beliefs. Lea's coaching provides a flexible, secular alternative that is ideal for modern couples. Unlike premarital therapy, which often focuses on resolving existing issues, Lea's proactive coaching aims to prevent potential problems and build a strong, resilient relationship from the start. This forward-thinking approach ensures that couples are well-prepared for a committed future together.

Each meeting is 40 minutes virtually. Includes package of 8 meetings.

(typically 2 months)

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Designed for couples committed to making lasting changes and deeply enhancing their relationship over a 12-week period. Each meeting is 40 minutes virtually. Includes package of 12 meetings.

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Commitment Package

What People Are Saying

“After completing our premarital coaching with you we felt prepared in all senses for what a lifetime could entail and our bond was surprisingly even stronger than it already was. Also thank you for helping us feel understood and for helping us learn to articulate clear boundaries throughout our wedding planning journey, we are so lucky to have found you!”

— Anonymous Client

“Whatever it is, the way you conduct meetings, we had fun while being productive. We loved the way you call it as it is, while finding a way to have us laugh about it when needed. You got us of our heads together and into the moment as a team. Our communication and connection has really improved. ”

— Anonymous Client

“We couldn’t wait to report back to you about those fun custom assignments you had us do week to week. My wife and I are somehow starting to feel like we are dating again, even after kids. We can’t thank you enough!!”

— Anonymous Client

“ I met my now fiancé after meeting you when I started dating again. Can’t thank you enough for helping me gain clearer insights into my own needs and values and how to get what I always wanted. I’m ready to come back for premarital meeting directly with you! Hope you have availability!”

— Anonymous Client

More about
my brand…

Lea E. Haber, LMSW, Ph.D (c), is a global relationship coach dedicated to nurturing marriage-minded individuals and couples in crafting enduring, passionate love stories. With prestigious degrees from NYU and Columbia, and a rich background in clinical sexology, Lea seamlessly blends scientific expertise with a warm, personalized touch. As a native New Yorker and world traveler, she brings a unique perspective and relates to clients from diverse backgrounds, offering support on a global scale.

Specializing in premarital coaching, Lea guides couples in building a solid foundation of emotional intimacy, communication, and connection. While traditional premarital counseling is often found within religious institutions, Lea’s secular and flexible coaching offers a modern, spiritual, romantic alternative that suits contemporary couples. Unlike premarital therapy, which often focuses on resolving existing issues, Lea’s proactive approach aims to prevent potential problems and cultivate a resilient, flourishing relationship from the start with an even more solid foundation.

Her Ph.D. candidacy in Clinical Sexology enhances her ability to discuss all aspects of a thriving relationship in one room. Lea’s approach is creative, science-informed, and solutions-oriented, designed to infuse more joy, playfulness, fun, and passion into relationships. By being proactive rather than reactive, she ensures that couples are well-prepared for a future filled with love and commitment.

Lea’s proven track record in helping couples achieve their relationship goals is influenced by elements of the Gottman method, CBT, MI, and play-based techniques. In a world that often values material items as privilege, she sees the greatest privilege as nurturing a loving, healthy relationship. This, she believes, is what makes a love story truly first-class. Whether you have children or not, the environment you create with your partner profoundly influences the broader system of love and connection.

Happily married, Lea finds her greatest joy in helping all love stories thrive, curating a legacy of love and commitment for future generations. By working with Lea, you’re investing in a future brimming with romance, connection, and enduring partnership. Together, let’s inspire the love stories of tomorrow, fostering relationships that stand the test of time.

Feel free to contact me if you have any other questions or need further information. I'm here to help you create a love story that stands the test of time.

FAQs

  • Relationship coaching is a proactive approach to building and maintaining healthy relationships. It focuses on enhancing communication, emotional intimacy, and connection between partners. Unlike therapy, which often addresses deep-seated emotional issues and past traumas, coaching is goal-oriented and solutions-focused, aiming to prevent problems before they escalate and strengthen the relationship. Coaching does not label or diagnose and is not a substitute for therapy or mental healthcare.

  • Coaching and therapy serve different purposes. There is a time and a place for both. Although Lea is a licensed therapist, she chooses to operate only as a coach at this time. Therapists can be coaches, but not all coaches can be therapists:

    • Coaching: Goal-oriented, focuses on the present and future, proactive strategies, and relationship enhancement. Ideal for couples seeking to build a stronger connection and prevent issues. Rather than something "being wrong".

    • Therapy: Addresses deeper emotional and psychological issues, often dealing with past traumas and significant emotional challenges. Therapy is conducted by licensed therapists and may involve long-term treatment and diagnosis.

  • Premarital coaching helps couples prepare for marriage by building a strong foundation of emotional intimacy, communication, and connection. It focuses on proactive strategies to address potential challenges before they become issues down the road that may be unforseen, ensuring a resilient and joyful marriage.

  • My coaching services are designed for marriage-minded individuals and couples at various stages of their relationship. Whether you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or experiencing life after kids and want to feel that young spark again in mid/early adulthood, coaching can help you build a strong, lasting relationship.

  • All coaching meetings are held virtually via Zoom, offering flexibility and convenience for clients worldwide. Sessions are typically 40 minutes long and tailored to your unique relationship needs as far as regularity goes.

  • During a coaching session, we will focus on your specific relationship goals, using creative, science-informed methods (seamlessly woven in) to enhance communication, emotional intimacy, and connection. Each session is designed to provide practical strategies and tools to help you build a stronger relationship.

  • Yes, all coaching sessions are confidential.

  • I hold degrees from NYU and Columbia, with extensive experience in clinical practice and a Ph.D. candidacy in Clinical Sexology. My approach is influenced by the Gottman method, CBT, MI, and play-based techniques.

  • To get started, simply reach out through the contact form on my website to schedule an initial consultation indicating which package you feel is best suited for your needs. If you're unsure of which package is best for you, you can always start with "The-One" for a one time meeting and from there, we’ll discuss your relationship goals and determine the best coaching package for you going forward.

    Once I receive your contact form you will be sent a coaching agreement and payment instructions. Once received you will get a direct link to my calendar to schedule your first meeting at your convenience.

  • I offer a range of coaching packages to suit different needs:

    • The-One: One 40-minute session, perfect for immediate concerns or fine-tuning.

    • 4-Love: Package of 4 sessions (1 month), ideal for consistent month-to-month support.

    • Foundation of Love: Premarital Package: Package of 8 sessions (2 months), tailored for couples preparing for marriage.

    • Commitment: Package of 12 sessions (3 months), designed for long-term relationship enhancement.

    Please visit the Services section on my website for detailed information on rates and packages.

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